Northern Minnesota has a high percentage of older population and also a high percentage of veterans.
Genie and I attended two events recognizing veterans. One with a free meal plus a flower centerpiece free for each table. Genie was given the long stem red rose at our table of six.
As we walked in, a table for one with a long stem rose greeted you at the event with the following: “The Missing Man Table.”
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The Missing Man Table
The table that stands before you is a place of honor. In setting this table, we acknowledge those missing from our celebrations. And we remember them.
• The table is small, and set for one - Symbolizing the vulnerability of a lone prisoner against his captors.
• The tablecloth is white - Symbolizing purity of intention in responding to the nation's call to arms.
• The chair is empty, for they are not here.
• The wine glass is inverted, for they cannot toast with us.
• The slice of lemon reminds us of their bitter suffering.
• The grains of salt represent the countless tears which we have shed.
• The single red rose reminds us of loved ones who keep the faith awaiting their return.
• The burning candle and yellow ribbon symbolize everlasting hope of reunion with the missing.
All who have served alongside them; we who have donned the same proud uniform, being sworn to the same faith and allegiance - We will never forget their sacrifice.
Until the day they return home, or find eternal peace,
We will remember.
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As a veteran of the Korean War, I was given the honor of thanking the sponsor of the event, namely the Casino at Walker Minnesota.
The Second event with “The Missing Table” was at “The Ground Round Restaurant” in east Grand Forks, Minnesota, greeting you in honor of veterans as you walked in the door. Each veteran was given a free deep fried Oreo cookie with hot fudge and butterscotch plus vanilla ice cream. Each person at the table got a spoon for the sharing.
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Bob is a retired AAL (Aid Association for Lutherans) agent, currently working on his master’s degree in Volunteering. His wife, Genie, is a retired RN, currently working on her doctor’s degree in Volunteering. They have two children, Deb in North Carolina, and Dan in New York. Bob says if you enjoy his column, let him know. If you don’t enjoy it, keep on reading, it can get worse. Words of wisdom: There is always room for God.